Emily Ratajkowski’s Engagement Ring: Story, Style & How You Can Get the Look

When Emily Ratajkowski, often known simply as EmRata, announced her engagement in 2018, the attention quickly turned to the ring that captured hearts and headlines. Designed in collaboration with high-end designer Alison Lou, the ring melds romance, symbolism, and modern artistry into what is now an iconic piece of jewellery. Here’s everything you need to know about its design, estimated cost, and how Rings of Australia can help you own a similar style—without the Hollywood price.

What Was Unique About EmRata’s Ring?

Rather than going for a single-centred stone, Emily chose a classic but uncommon design: the toi et moi (French for “you and me”) ring. It features two diamonds side by side, symbolising partnership and unity. In her case, the design balances:

• A pear-shaped diamond (about 3 carats)

• A princess-cut diamond (around 2 carats)

• Both are set on a warm 18-karat yellow gold band 

The pairing of the sharply angled princess cut with the softer pear cut creates a striking contrast—modern yet romantic, bold yet refined.

The Story Behind the Sparkle

When Emily Ratajkowski got engaged in 2018, her proposal was anything but traditional. Sebastian Bear-McClard proposed without a ring—using a paperclip instead. Later, the couple collaborated to design something truly unique: a modern toi et moi ring featuring a 2-carat princess-cut diamond paired with a 3-carat pear-shaped diamond, set on an 18ct yellow gold band. Emily herself sketched more than 50 versions of the design before working with jewellery designer Alison Lou to bring it to life. The asymmetrical double-stone look quickly gained attention for its symbolism—two stones representing two souls—and its balance of bold modernity with timeless romance.

How Much Is The Ring Worth?

Estimates place the ring's value between US $50,000 and $90,000, or roughly AUD $75,000 to $130,000, depending on the diamonds’ clarity, cut quality, and market trends. This range reflects both the stunning materials and the bespoke nature of the design.

What Happened to the Ring?

In an inspiring turn, Emily reimagined the ring after her 2022 separation. Collaborating once again with Alison Lou, the original two-stone design was split into two meaningful pieces—her now-famous “divorce rings”:

1. A pear-shaped solitaire ring on a bold gold band,
2. A princess-cut diamond ring flanked by trapezoid stones, both re-set in a new arrangement

This thoughtful transformation turned the rings into symbols of renewal and self-love—reflecting strength and creativity in the face of change.

Why the Toi et Moi Design Struck a Chord

1. Timeless Romance – A historical nod that feels deeply personal and beautifully symbolic.
2. Bold Yet Elegant – The asymmetrical pairing is both modern and classic.
3. Statement-Making – Far from ordinary, it speaks to those who embrace design with meaning.

Love EmRata’s Ring? Here’s How You Can Have It…

At Rings of Australia, we specialise in transforming iconic designs into personalised, handcrafted pieces — without the Hollywood price tag.

The Original Ring vs. Yours

• EmRata’s ring is estimated to cost between
  USD $50,000–$90,000 (AUD $75,000–$130,000)
  

• With us? you can get a similar look at a price you won’t believe.

Here’s How It Works:

1. Start with a FREE design consultation
   Chat online on WhatsApp, or meet us in our Brisbane office — no obligations.
   
2. Share your ideas or inspirations
   Love EmRata’s ring? Want a different diamond shape? Show us your vision or let us guide you.
   
3. We design it, you approve it
    Our experts will sketch and 3D render your ring until it’s exactly how you imagined.
   
4. We craft it to perfection
   Using ethically sourced lab-grown or natural diamonds, and the metal of your choice.
   
5. Enjoy FREE, insured delivery Australia-wide
   Or pick up in person from our Brisbane office.

Why Design with Rings of Australia?

• Ethically sourced materials, including lab-grown diamond options
  

• No unnecessary markups—luxury craftsmanship at value prices
  

• Personalised design experience, from first sketch to final clasp
  

• Lifetime aftercare, including resizing and maintenance support
  
  

We believe your ring should reflect your story—not just replicate celebrity.

Ready to Create Your Symbol of Love?

Emily Ratajkowski’s ring was more than a jewel—it was a narrative, a style statement, and a piece with meaning. Ours can be too, only crafted just for you.

Book your Free Design Consultation today, Chat on WhatsApp, or visit our Brisbane Office to start your custom journey.

Let’s create something meaningful and beautiful—without the celebrity price tag.

Disclaimer:

This blog is for informational purposes only and is not affiliated with or endorsed by Emily Ratajkowski or her representatives. The design details are based on publicly available sources and used here solely as inspiration.